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Taking Pen to Paper

When was the last time you received a letter?

Not a surprise letter from the IRS saying that you…weee!…owe them several thousand dollars or a letter from your local library telling of a way-overdue book that you could swear you returned. Remember that episode of Seinfeld with The Tropic of Cancer book that was 20 years overdue?

No, I’m talking about an honest-to-God, old-fashioned, written on nice stationary (or at least some colorful paper) letter. Who gets those anymore in the age of texting, email, Skyping and FaceTime? I love how we even refer to them now as “old-fashioned”. This is just something that was a completely standard form of communication a few short decades ago.

I was lucky enough to get one just a few weeks ago.

A bright pink envelope arrived in my mailbox. I love getting the mail. Honestly, I don’t know what I think is going to appear in that mailbox (a gift? Harrison Ford? a new car?), but I always love peeking in there. This envelope even had the magic words on it…Par Avion…Air Mail. I love those letters, with their international, beautiful stamps. They always seem to be extra-stamped with ink-stamps, too, making them appear all the more special. You can just picture the postal worker in some far-off city with their Par Avion stamper…ka-bam! ka-bam! ka-bam! Send this one overseas!

An old friend of mine who lives in Paris decided to write me an OF (old-fahioned) letter recently. We had connected earlier (briefly) via email and then I waited to hear from her once she returned from a quick trip to Amsterdam. No emails arrived and I started to wonder. But then the letter came! Fun! One of the first lines in this lovely letter on lovely stationary was “I figure if we are going to catch up, how much nicer is it to receive a letter rather than another email?”. Got that right. I just love her.

It was truly a surprise to find this in my mailbox. I can’t tell you the last time I pulled a GOOD letter out of there. It got me thinking that, beyond cards for holidays, people just don’t write letters anymore. It’s amazing how that has changed. Not all that long ago, we had to have patience when communicating. Wait for the mail to arrive. Wait for the person to get home to check their answering machine. Now we just need 4G instead of 3G. I distinctly remember waiting for the mailman when I was dating my husband back in college. Hmm. That almost didn’t sound right.

Also when I was in college (apparently a big era for writing. All hail the 80s), one of my grandmas wrote to me every single week. And in her letter there was always money, in some amalgamation, totaling exactly five dollars. How cute is that? It could be a crisp five dollar bill, a few singles and change, singles and stamps (to write back to her). She wrote to me of her daily goings-on, nothing earch-shattering but dear in it’s simplicity, she told me to study hard and that she loved me. All alongside those sweet five dollars. Thanks to her, I was able to do my laundry each week. I’ll never forget those regular letters and how I loved receiving them. One that I saved actually fell out of one of my cookbooks just the other day. Fun to have Grandma reappear like that.

These days, when you do have the luck to receive a letter, it just floors you. Or at least it does me. That person took the time! They bought stamps! They went to the post office to mail it! They had to buy stationary! It’s as good as a full-fledged present because time was put into it. That’s something that isn’t doled out willy-nilly these days and everyone seems to have a shortage of it.

One of my favorite parts of the Sex and the City movie (the first one…aka The Good One) was when Carrie was reading the book of love letters from notable men to their loves-wives, girlfriends, lovers. Ever mine, Ever Thine, Ever Ours. 100 points for you, Mr. Beethoven. Game over, you win. Who could resist THAT? Counter that by perusing Hallmark cards or listening to (some) stuff on the radio…now we can see how civilization is crumbling. Oh, it just makes you melt when you see how communication-especially the great stuff involving love-was once handled. Or did you ever see the mini-series with Paul Giamatti and Laura Linney…John Adams? They were   intellectual equals AND madly in love AND they wrote hundreds of letters back and forth to each other. Ah, the good old days. If there’s one thing I am it’s a sucker for romance. Put in the form of a letter and you had me at Hello.

Needless to say, I plan to write back to my friend in Paris this week. I just have to get some stationary, as I don’t even own any at the moment. How sad is that? I haven’t done this in so long that I’m actually strategizing how to carve out the time to do it. Again, how sad is that? She sat at a little cafe (ok, in Paris. So much better…she even said it was the one from the movie Before Sunrise) so maybe I will start there…find my favorite Le Pen and some gorgeous paper and go back in time a bit.

Should be good for the soul, I think….Thank you for taking me back in time, my friend!


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Too much Valentine’s sugar, suga?

Eat a veggie.

If you started your day yesterday with a chocolate at 7am (who me?), you are probably welcoming the thought of good, unadulterated, all-natural, colorful, healthy food today. Like Elaine on Seinfeld: “I want a BIG salad”. But to go Organic or Not Organic, that’s the question at hand and one that sends people scrambling and questioning ad nauseum. Should I eat only organic? Do I have to spend insane amounts of money at Whole Foods or other “natural” food stores to keep my family healthy? What to do…what to do…fortunately AND unfortnately, there’s lots of talk about “going organic” with one’s shopping habits but there’s never really been a hard and fast starting point with this conversation. As there are no highly publicized base lines, unless you really educate yourself, which most folks don’t have the time or desire to do, you are left flapping in the wind. Or the produce aisle, as it may be.  It also puts people between a rock and hard place because, as we all know, going organic and supporting your local farmer usually also means paying a bit more for those foods. You want to do good and do good by your family but you also have to watch that money isn’t totally flying out of your wallet. I get it. I’m there, too. So, I don’t know about you but if I’m trying to change a way that I do something, I go baby-steps. I am not an all-or-nothing kind of gal, never have been, and I know it doesn’t work for me. Drastic equals gray hairs, stress and usually disappointment. Instead: moderation…little steps…and over time, the effect is cumulative and ultimately more successful. You don’t have to buy everything organic (that’s right, you don’t!), but for certain items, you are better off going organic as some crops are either doused in more pesticides or just soak it up more (ew). For others, just save your money and buy the regularly farmed types. But which is which and why is this info not splashed all over grocery stores to help us?

So…to help you all out a bit…a watchdog group called the Environmental Working Group has compiled a list of the best and the worst. Check this out before you next go shopping.

Go Organic with (in order of the most pesticide ridden):

-Apples
-Celery
-Strawberries
-Peaches
-Spinach
-Nectarines
-(imported) Grapes
-Red Sweet Peppers
-Potatoes
-Blueberries
-Lettuce
-Kale
-Milk

And here are 15 that you can go NON-Organic with and feel ok about buying (generally, but not always, if it’s got a thick peel, you can go non-organic. Good way to remember it.):
-Onions
-Corn
-Pineapples
-Avocados
-Asparagus
-Sweet Peas
-Mangoes
-Eggplant
-Cantaloupe (domestic)
-Kiwi
-Cabbage
-Watermelon
-Sweet Potatoes
-Grapefruit
-Mushrooms

This is a start. You’re probably looking at the Worst Offenders list like I am and thinking that those are all regular items that you buy and how on earth are you going to go organic with all of them without breaking the bank? Start with a few. Overall, it’s better to just be eating the fruit and vegetables and getting the nutrients and vitamins that they offer, rather than skipping them all together. Then, wash the sweet heck out of them. Rotate which you go organic with on a weekly basis. Or go organic with most and cut corners in other areas of the store (don’t buy the name brand cereal, buy the store brand… or skip red meat for a week or two). See what works for you and your cart. The main point is just to try to integrate better quality foods into your life and start with the baby steps. All doable, without a doubt.

Time for a recipe now that is easy and uses a superfood-green-veggie. Know which one it is? You might be scared of it. You might have avoided it in the past because you don’t know what to do with it. It’s worth trying, though, in this doctored-up fashion. My fabulous cousins “E” and “A” are responsible for this gem…my husband AND kids now eat this veggie this way and I seriously can’t get it down my gullet fast enough.  A miracle, I tell you, a miracle!

Kale Salad (remember the above lists and GO Organic with this one)

Rip off all the leaves from the big ol’ stems of some organic kale. Yes, raw, un-cooked kale. Bet you didn’t think you could eat it raw and have it taste good. Wash them VERY well. You can, at this point, dry them and put them in a big ziploc bag and they will store very well in the fridge for a few days. No wilting going on that way. Next, take the washed leaves and tear them into smaller bites. We don’t need to look like dinosaurs eating this salad. Dress with very good extra-virgin olive oil, salt and garlic powder (or save a step and use garlic salt. Whole Foods has a good one) to taste. You can even add a little squirt of lemon juice (real, please, no bottled. Ew.) if you like. Toss, toss, toss and grate good quality parmegiano-reggiano (you know it’s real if there is stamped writing on the rind. No writing, don’t bother buying it) over the whole salad. Toss it again super-well so that everything is coated in this goodness and chow down. Mangia! I tell you…it’s perfectly addictive. I probably eat this salad twice a week.

A BIG salad. Like Elaine.

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